Life in Pictures: A Bear and His Mama Spend a Weekend

This weekend Max and I were without Nate, who was still in Detroit visiting his family and setting up his brick and mortar office for his development business GRID LLC. Much of the weekend involved running errands, going for long drives, taking lots of walks up and down on the sidewalks of our mountainside neighborhood, frolicking at the dog park, lounging in the living room and sleeping.


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Max the Bear lounging on our guest room bed, uninvited.


Life in Pictures: A Bear-y Max and Mama Weekend

In the house, Max lounges around, quite lazy, dozing off in one spot, only to wake up an hour later, stalk to another spot and stretch out there. The only time he seems active and lively is when I’m eating and he follows me around, begging for treats with his extremely expressive eyes. Other than that, he’s lying around somewhere. In the hallway, under a table, on a guest bed without being invited…always asleep or on the verge of dozing off.


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Max, lounging in the cool, dark hallway. One of his favorite spots.


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Someone’s following me around…


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Are you looking for something, Mr. Bear?


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… Oh, you want treats? Cookies? Schneke? … Beggar Bear.


I, on the other hand, am more committed to my lounging spots. I park my ass firmly onto a specific corner of our comfy couch and I lay back, feasting my eyes on the bountiful visual delights of my new boyfriend, HGTV (Home and Garden TV network). I occasionally get up to empty my bladder, find the Bear and lavish him with Friendship (a currency in his country!) or skulk to the kitchen to rummage through our barren cabinets for something to snack on, only to realize moments later that we don’t keep snacks in the house for the very reason that we binge when we indulge ourselves in hours-long sessions with the TV. Dangit.

When we tire of lounging (who could do such a thing!), we go outside. I either take him on a specific loops of streets in our neighborhood, craning my neck here and there for a view of the ocean (not hard to find), or I take him to the dog park at the bottom of the mountain.


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Max successfully terrorized the big dogs and remains the victorious Bear of the wilderness.


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Max, pouncing.


Max comes alive when he hits the grass at the dog park. The lounging, somnolent little bugger becomes a leaping, bouncy beast, pouncing on nearby dogs and dog-parents alike. He reserves no judgement and withholds no affection. He loves all moving creatures alike (though he hasn’t started to gravitate toward purse dogs, yet… like mother, like son, I suppose!).

This weekend, he chose a specific doggy dad to follow around the park between our fast-paced frisbee fetch and tag game. Coming up to me to comment on Max’s cuteness, the man diplomatically received Max’s fierce onslaught of Wheaten Greetin’ and Friendship exchanging. When Max calmed a bit a few minutes later, he leaned heavily against the man’s leg while the man scratched behind Max’s ears. Oh, what a spoiled one.

When it was time for more Frisbee, Max ran for it, but in a moment of distraction by a newcomer big dog, he ran off into the pack to jump and punch and play with all the other kids…. and then he discovered and immediately fell in love with the dog park’s mudhole. Breaking off my conversation with the doggy dad, I ran off to retrieve the frisbee and Max only to discover him lying down full in the mud, legs, stomach and all.


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Where’s Max? Too tired to find his way out of those treacherous curtains!


I hosed him off when we got home and then we both promptly collapsed into our respective beds, Max, so tired he couldn’t be bothered to maneuver his head around the curtain that half-covered him.


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When he’s super REM-ing, he sleeps on his back, full on Grocery Store frozen food aisle chicken style.


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Tuckered Bear, tuckered Bear mama. Lazy Sunday.


Sunday, we slept a lot, snuggled a lot and didn’t go near the dogpark, having thoroughly tired ourselves out.

It was a good weekend.

How was your weekend?

Me ke aloha ~ With love, Xx
Mae

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Day in the Life: Homecomings and The Bear[Dog]

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Cute of the Day: The cutest, most puppy-like, most teddy-bear-like large dog that ever lived. Max The Bear[Dog].

{ A Day in the Life } Coming Home to Max the Bear[Dog]

A few weeks ago, Husby left the door open to the house when he came up the hill to help me with three stores-worth of groceries, and Maxey came upstairs to the driveway (we live on the bottom floor of a house nestled into a mountainside). He noted our next door neighbor–who will be forever-named “Uncle Neighbor” on account of never learning his name since we’re both Filipino–A simple “Hi, Uncle” is respect enough–and immediately charged him, his nub of a tail buzzing back and forth furiously. Sometimes I look at his tail wagging and think that, if one were to go close enough to the nubby, she’d hear a faint thrum like that of a hummingbird or bee’s wings. When Nate successfully removed our dog from our neighbor, Max finally noticed me, bum rushed in my direction and ran full into my leg. Thankfully, I had my arms full of grocery bags, so there was no danger of injury or anything. ;)

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Max likes to wait for me in the hallway when I come home. It’s the best thing to come home to, next to my awesome Husby.

Maxey often greets me in this fashion when I get home. The moment the key turns the deadbolt from the outer door, I know the big bear-like dog has roused himself from whatever lying position he was in in the guest bedroom or hallway, or from a “shrimp-y” position, curled up at Nate’s feet under the dining room table, trots to the our foyer at the bottom of the entryway stairs, awaiting my arrival on our charcoal grey pop corn rug. I open our inner door, and more often than not, Little Bear is seated there, twisting his head cutely to the side like a puppy, ready to charge up the stairs for an affection attack and a proper, satisfying Butt Scratch. The first five minutes of my time at home in the evening are spent squealing in painfully high-pitched tones, cooing and dancing around with my son-dog, a much needed burst of happiness and delight before I embark into the monotony of household drudgery and house-wifering. Sometimes I wonder if my husband feels neglected, when all I do is spare a quick, “hi, muffin!” down the hallway while I play with Bear and unload my arms of their burdens.

Beginning to think I ought to work on my home greetings to somehow include both of the males in my life.


Sending you thoughts of love, happiness and beauty. May your life be filled with happy and loving moments.

Me ke aloha ~ With love, Xx
Mae

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A Man and His Bear: A Father’s Day Tribute

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Husby, with his adorable smile (which he only flashes when he has coffee, kombucha or Scotch in his hands), back in January in Maui.

I rather love this man. While he’s not the perfect man, nor the perfect husband, he’s the closest thing to perfect for me I’ve ever found, and could never have imagined for myself back in my naïve, idealistic youth.

{ Stylish Story } A Father’s Day Tribute

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Husby and me (rocking the clashing prints! #howtomixprints, what!) at Halona Lookout in Oahu (10 min away from our house).

We argue, we make up. We work hard and grow together. We’ve survived and thrived through long distance love, two cross-country moves, several inter-oceanic travels, a harrowing wedding schedule and planning process, an inter-oceanic move, 7.5 years of push and pull and give and take and laughing and giggling and crying and yelling and snickering and cuddling and sexing and loving and walking and running and sunset chasing. It’s been quite a ride; I can’t help but wonder what the next step will bring.

He’s not a father…yet. At least not for a couple more years.

But! In a way, he sort of already is:

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Max the Bear, the cutest Wheaten Terrier I know.


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Husby and Max the Bear at my parent’s house in San Diego back in November.


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Husby and The Bear in his mum’s home in Detroit back in early November before we moved to Hawaii. LOOK HOW FURRY MAX WAS!


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Epic Pupuke‘a Beach sunset on the North Shore with Max the Bear and Husby.

If how he treats this Bear[Dog] is even an inkling of how he’d care for and treat a child, I know our future family is going to be in good hands.

Happy Doggy Dad’s Day, Husby, from me and Max the Bear.


And to my own father… the literally cutest little father on the planet, my adorable 4’10″ Poppy: I wouldn’t be the anal, thorough, analytical, methodical person I am if it weren’t for his brilliant genes. He is, quite honestly, the most intelligent, generous human being I’ve ever met.

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The cutest Poppy that ever Popped.

Happy Poppy’s Day, Poppy. I love you.


Readers,
What did you do for Dad’s Day? I hope it was magical and with the greatest love.

Me ke aloha ~ With love, Xx
Mae


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